There are different points of views on the definition of personality development. Some say it is a way of your dressing sense, your body language or verbal language etc. But maintaining something from outer side is always temporarily. How long can you persist with the things which are not inside you?
How can you drive yourself with different body and mind level? If you wear a coat, trouser and tie to display yourself in a best way but other side you don’t have manners of speaking politely or respectfully then this entire outfit is all in vain.
Personality is not from out side it is a feeling of importance from inside. When you have done something by which you have a feeling of importance for you then your body and mind acts like the same.
A person’s personality is not a game of playing for some office hours but it is your overall life style. For developing your personality you need to be disciplined with your daily routine time table. Your personality is reflected by how are you living your daily routine? Your personality is the projection of your inner thoughts, character, talk and habits.
What kinds of activities are involved in your routine?
Activity 1: Are your daily activities having the quality of developing your skills, knowledge your own up gradation, mental and physical health?
Activity 2: Or you are just spending your time in leniency, procrastination with nothing more to do specific today or tomorrow?
If you are living a life according to activity 1 then it is definite that you are going to have the feeling of greatness in you that feeling will project your personality. The feeling of living your life with an aim will ignite you to do your best to wear best to act best to talk best and so on. And all this best is not designed for few hours or for few days which will get faded timely. But it will last for ever.
You are like a guided missile no body needs to tell you what to wear how to wear, how to talk etc.
If you live a life of activity 2 doing your daily chores at home at working place without a feeling of developing your daily work ability then no matter how good or costly you wear it will be faded soon.
It is said in corporate world that your appearance always matter first. But your appearance showcases you temporarily while your actions, habits or talk are always permanent. These all three things will be there with you where ever you are. Whether during your working hours or after that.
You might have seen people dressed sophisticatedly but they talk rubbish or swear words. People driving in lavish cars but caught in rash driving cases. Some of this incidents have proven that always the things which look shining from outside is not necessarily has a shine from inside.
Your personality is not maintaining temporarily in front of someone for few hours but your personality is a reflection of your daily habits, actions, your quality of talk, thoughts, your character and your desire of ‘How your want to be treated?’.